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Toddlers—(2-3 years)

As toddlers begin to use and understand more
language, they are moving around more as well.
During this stage, caregivers must realize that man-
ners don’t come naturally; they must be taught.
Manners won’t be learned overnight; it will take a
long time, so be patient and practice, practice, prac-
tice! Toddlers are just beginning to learn how to act
socially around others, and parents need to be ob-
servant and “hands-on” at this time. Concentrate on
these areas:
Sharing—teach them how to share and discour-
age snatching toys from others.
Politeness—don’t allow aggressive behavior
such as pushing, shoving, or hitting. Practice saying
“please, thank you, and excuse me” often, but expect
to say it a lot before they really get it.
Cleanliness—even if they don’t want to clean up,
encourage them to help (both at home and in pre-
school situations). A new activity should not be
started until the first one is cleaned up.
Patience—introduce the concept of “waiting” in
situations where they have to take turns, or when
mom is on the phone or speaking to another adult in
person, or when they have to wait for a meal or snack
to be served.

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